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Remember when something like this happened to me?

Long distance relationship + boyfriend that hates texting = 11 phone calls so far today

That time I got a mass text from a random number who, I’m assuming, didn’t know we would all see he was sending a mass text.

Is this love? Probably.

He’s just really good at cleaning them for me! Haha

007 is out of town for a few days visiting family. But he can’t get enough of me (and my Christmas tee)!

Merry Christmas, y’all!

Not getting my hopes up, but definitely doesn’t hurt.

We’re working out at his gym tonight. Lord Jesus help me haha

The worst part about dating in Vegas; agreeing to go for sushi (for a second time) with a man that you don’t really have any interest in the first place, but you say yes anyway because he keeps asking so intently….and then he expects you to A.) remember his schedule B.) eat dinner at 11:30 pm?!!!

Out his damn mind!

I have plans tomorrow and probably Thursday and Friday, too. Soooo hopefully he’ll just give up.

EDIT:

theladybrain said: That’s just certifiably insane, eating sushi at 11pm? The fuck is wrong with you, guy?

sorry, to clarify, he works for one of the shows on the strip so he gets off work at 11pm. I get off at 4pm, so yes, he IS insane to think I’m not gonna eat til 11pm haha I guess I could have second dinner.

My heart is beating out of my chest.

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This is the guy from last night.  Before today, he had taken down all his pictures on POF because he said he couldn’t figure out how to deactivate. I took the following screen cap after the weight incident because I thought it was so sweet of him.  So we talked through iMessage until his phone came.

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Before I sent that text at 4:30, I noticed he had put up all new pictures, and it said he was online. 

So I’m on the phone with Liz just looking through my messages on POF. and I notice my thread with him is gone.  Liz and I both do the username search and see that his profile is still up.  So to test, I go and try to send him a message.

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I’m leaving the username in the pic.  Y’all can go look at him/send him hate emails if you want.  If you don’t go look, I can tell you right now he has a big, misshapen head but a nice body.  And he can go fuck himself.

So then I go into crazy bitch mode.  I tell Liz that I have to get off the phone cuz I’m going to call him.  I do, no answer of course. I leave a not terribly nasty message saying if he’s brave enough he can call me or text me back, if not, good luck with everything.  Then I send one last text for good measure, “You’re not a good guy.”

By no means did I think I was going to marry this person, but no fucking way did I think it was going to end so abruptly/rudely.  Literally yesterday he was saying how much he was looking forward to seeing me, and then we made out for a while and then my ass is fucking BLOCKED.  I’m going to block his number.

Did I Secret myself by wondering if it was goodbye for good in my post last night?  Or am I just that fucking good at being able to tell when I’m never going to see someone again? 

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So after the post this morning, I actually didn’t have to bring anything up because he did:

So hopefully that won’t be happening much anymore haha God, of course now he finally really likes me and I’M the one that’s not as into it!

Beats Me

So that guy who wanted to be friends and then changed his mind, and I had hoped I would never hear from again, texted me today (it’s been three months)

What posses someone to do that?

I suppose I kind of did it with Blasty.  But at least we’d actually MET previously haha

Why do men even bother trying to argue with women? We’re like ALL Sherlock fucking Holmes. I’ll give them so much evidence (ie screen caps), and they’ll STILL try to argue their point. You texted me at 10pm, and I texted back you at 1am. I texted you on the 31st, and you responded on the 2nd!!!!!

Just stop. You’re wrong.

Because the world is just too small.  We didn’t know each other in high school, but he was in my older sister’s graduating class.  Pretty sure I boned one of his friends/made out with two others though haha Not in high school, like on a couple of return trips to the hometown when I was in college. (Liz was at the get together where I made out with one friend in the bathroom and the other friend on the balcony.  One of my proudest moments hahaha). He wasn’t there cuz he was off saving the world and shit.
He’s stationed at a base a few hours from here.
We’re texting.  He asked me to be his date to a ball happening in Huntington Beach in a few weeks HAHA I told him I’d think about it.
ANDDDD I guess he’s going to come out here next weekend haha

Because the world is just too small.  We didn’t know each other in high school, but he was in my older sister’s graduating class.  Pretty sure I boned one of his friends/made out with two others though haha Not in high school, like on a couple of return trips to the hometown when I was in college. (Liz was at the get together where I made out with one friend in the bathroom and the other friend on the balcony.  One of my proudest moments hahaha). He wasn’t there cuz he was off saving the world and shit.

He’s stationed at a base a few hours from here.

We’re texting.  He asked me to be his date to a ball happening in Huntington Beach in a few weeks HAHA I told him I’d think about it.

ANDDDD I guess he’s going to come out here next weekend haha

Blasty 3 hours ago:

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Blasty just now:

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Closure is nice for everyone.

See, dudes! It’s not that hard to NOT ignore someone for the rest of eternity.

(I’m the blue)

polytheneglam:

I will say this - delayed texting = okay.

NEVER texting back when someone asks if you want to hang out again = DICK move.

I may not text back right away, and I may go out on a lot of first dates that have no second date, but I always text to say “thanks but I don’t think it’s going to work…

Oh yeah I meant to post this the other day.  The guy I went out with the other week and felt meh about.  He texted me the day after the date and we exchanged pleasantries.   Then I didn’t hear from him for like a week which was completely fine with me.  He texted, “Hey. Never heard from you.”  I forgot what my initial I-don’t-want-to-go-out-with-you-again text said cuz Liz and I spit balled a few options and then I deleted the thread.  Check the next post for what ensued (because it won’t let me upload my own pics on this rebloggy thing)